Are You Kidding Me?

How do you know whether or not to get closer to someone? For instance, you meet someone you like and go out on a date or two, but how do you move onto the next step? When should the first hug or kiss come into play?

Most guys I’ve gone out with will make the first move, which is fine because it lets me know what they are feeling. But what about the shy guys? You know them, the ones that seem like they are interested, but you just aren’t sure.

If you’re like me, you think that men should generally make the move first. But in cases like the shy guys, what is a girl to do?

I’m at a crossroads here with shy men. They are sweet and nice, but I wish they were a tad more aggressive.

So my answer on what to do? For right now, nothing. I will make it my mission to get to know a guy before moving any further with him. Friends first, right?

Welcome everyone! My name is Diana and I am a 30 year old single woman. Yes, I admit that sometimes it does suck out there. It’s hard to find a good person to get along with. Well, maybe it’s just me. Anyhow, I started this blog in order to help all of us singles out there and to offer tips. I also would love to give advice and answer questions, because I know we all have them.

I’d like to ask a question. How many of you are content with being single? How many of you hate it?

Me? Right now I’m content. I used to get depressed seeing couples out there and I’d go home and eat a pint of Ben & Jerry’s Peanut Butter Cup ice cream, but I’ve learned that I have to stop doing that. Besides my clothes not being able to fit every time I do this, I also realized that I needed to take control of my life and my feelings and just be happy with my life. One day that special person will come along.