May 14 2008
Disappearing Men
Why is it that some guys just drop off the face of the earth? What I mean is, let’s say you meet a guy and you go out a few times with him. You think everything is going great, and he’s the one initiating the dates….and then all of a sudden, he just disappears.
You send him a text message, no answer. You shoot him a quick email….still no answer. You wait a few days without hearing a word and ultimately decide that things are over.
Where did he go? What happened to him? If he wasn’t that interested, then why did he want to keep going out? What made him just decide that he didn’t want to talk to you anymore?
I’m seeing this happen more and more to people I know. I’m always paranoid that it will happen to me, I mean, I get all annoyed when I don’t hear back from a guy right away and usually assume the worst - that they are ditching me. It hasn’t happened yet, but I’m waiting for the day it does. Maybe it’s because I always like to have the last word I guess.
But I see this happening to my friends. Why do these guys do this? Is that the new thing, to not be a man about it and just totally ignore someone?
I’d love to hear from guys out there that have done this. What makes you want to completely stop talking to someone you just started going out with? Please let me know, I’m very curious.
Well this post is an older one but man is it still relevant! I don’t know why guys do this. I think that perhaps they had something going on before they met the person they disappear on and maybe it was on hold or something. Then bam that person walks back into their life again so they go back to it and leave the other person hangin’.