May 24 2008
Boyfriend = BFF?
What do you do when you feel like you and the guy you are dating seem to be becoming just friends?
Have you ever felt like you were one of the guys, and not the girlfriend?
We all want to be the ‘cool girlfriend’ that seems carefree, calm and fun to be with. But sometimes that can turn into being one of the guys and you definitely don’t want that.
What are some ways to make sure this doesn’t happen?
Make sure you let him know that you still like being treated like a lady. If he wants to open doors for you or pay for dinner or a night out, let him.
If he makes jokes that are normally offensive and gross, laugh a little to make him feel good, but then drop it and change the subject. Don’t egg him on into making both of you look like best buds out on the town.
Keep the boundaries there and there will be a fine line that he won’t cross.
