May 27 2008
Snooping Around
I was reading an article today in a magazine that listed 30 or so ways to snoop on your man. It actually gave detailed instructions on what to look through and what to look for when he isn’t around.
Do I agree with this? No. I don’t think a magazine should be promoting distrust in your partner and sneakiness on your part.
Have I done some of this stuff before? Yes, but not many. I only did it with one person and he had given me many reasons to suspect that other activity was going on. I don’t regret what I did, because it made me break up with him, but I felt really bad looking through his phone and his MySpace account. In the end though, it was good that I did it, otherwise I’d probably still be in that bad relationship today.
I think that if a guy leaves outright clues that he is cheating or doing something he isn’t supposed to, then you can look at those. But as for snooping, I wouldn’t like it if it was done to me, so I never do it to anyone else. What I don’t know won’t hurt me. Same with friends that talk about me behind my back. If I never hear what they said specifically, I can’t get stressed about it.
What about you? Do you agree that it’s okay to snoop around your man’s things anytime you want?
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