Jul 03 2008
Giving Up On Finding Someone
Do you ever feel like giving up on finding someone? It’s like, when you meet someone you finally like, then things don’t work out and you break up, you have to do it all over again. Searching for someone, learning about them, telling them about yourself…it’s like a neverending cycle.
I have a few friends that go online and meet people and they say the same thing. They are tired of doing it over and over and are ready to quit and just stay single for awhile. It seems to them like it’s always such a hassle to have to start over.
As for me, I have fun dating people, and when it happens to end with someone, I usually give myself a little time before I will go on a date with someone new. Depending on how much I liked that previous person, I give myself time to ‘mourn’ so to say, even if I was the one to break it off.
I would definitely suggest taking a break if you are getting tired of the single life. Spend time with yourself and do things with your friends. Then when you’re ready, jump back in and I’m sure you’ll have fun.
