Jul 08 2008
Getting Help From Others
If you are having a problem with someone that you don’t want around you, don’t be afraid to seek help from people. First off, there are many organizations out there for women that will help you with problems, such as an unwanted suitor or an ex that won’t leave you alone. Look up a local organization on the Internet and call their hotline. They are usually very knowledgeable about such issues.
Take advantage of your friends and family that are around to help you. No one wants to see you in a bad situation, so many times people will surprise you and actually care about your situation and try to help you. Don’t push them away, accept their help. While it may feel awkward at first, just tell yourself that you are better off with more people around you rather than doing it on your own.
If your situation gets out of hand, don’t be afraid to go to the police. They are there to help you and can often stop the problem before it gets worse.
I had to do this once. The guy was harrassing me until a friend of mine had a nice talk with him. He never called me again after that LOL