Jul 31 2008
When They Just Stop Calling For No Reason
Why is it, when you think you have something totally perfect with someone, they drop off the face of the Earth and stop calling you?
One of my friends right now is going through that with someone. She went out a few times with this guy and for no reason whatsoever (that we know of), he stopped calling her.
Of course, she’s blaming herself and wondering what she did wrong. I’ve told her that I’m not sure she’s the one who did anything wrong. We, as women, are always blaming ourselves for something that has failed, but honestly, we really need to stop doing that.
If someone isn’t willing to work at a relationship, then they aren’t looking for one at all. I’m almost certain that my friend got one of those jerks that goes around doing this to women all the time. They sweet talk you into doing whatever they want, and when they get it, they disappear.
My advice is to forget about him and move on. It’s so easy to say that, but really hard to do. But everything takes time, and in time she will see what a jerk he was and not this god-like perfect guy. She will meet a guy that will treat her way better than this one ever did.
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