Aug 22 2008
Are You Single For a Reason?
I once read in a book the coolest saying. It said that some people are single for a season, and some are single for a reason. What do you consider yourself?
For me, I always thought that I was single for a season, because once I ended one relationship, another one seemed to come along. I now realize that I’m single for a reason mostly because I’m too annoying and picky. I pick relationships that are bad for me and I never realize it but others around me do. Why is it that we can’t see what’s wrong in our own relationships until others around us speak up and tell us? Maybe it’s because I want things to work out that I’m willing to let a lot of things slide, which is where my downfall is.
Usually if someone does something wrong I immediately get irritated and don’t want to be in the relationship….yeah, I’m a loser, but that’s why I’m single. I just chalk it up to not having found that right person yet where I can ignore all their ‘faults’. I know that one day someone will come along and I won’t care about his faults, and he will respect me enough to love me for all of mine. Is there such a person out there? Yes, absolutely there is! And he will come along when I least expect it.
For the rest of you, what would you say, single for a reason or single for a season?
