Sep 09 2008
Are Some People Single Forever?
I was reading something on the Internet the other night that said sometimes people are just going to end up alone for the rest of their lives. That there isn’t someone out there for everyone. Kinda sad to think about that, don’t you think?
What if I’m one of those people? I’m a people-person and enjoy being in public. I can’t imagine growing old by myself and not having someone to share my life with. But maybe that’s what is in store for me.
However, I’m going to try hard not to let that happen. There are some people out there that like to be alone, they are loners and could go through life being completely content with it.
Sure, you can become comfortable with living the single life, but does that give you reason to never enjoy your life with someone else?
Many people tell me they are happy being single, and I can’t say that I am. Sure, I am content being single, but I’d rather be in a relationship/marriage/whatever. I just can’t believe that someone could be ‘happy’ living the single life. I would feel like there’s something missing. But whatever, everyone is different, and these are only my thoughts.
What is your opinion on this? Do you think a person can be happy being by themselves and never have a loving relationship ever again?
Well some have been in a relationship but the other person ended up screwing them. So now they can’t trust anyone else and well its better being alone. You can do what you want, when you want. Not have to worry about others and if they are being faithful(lets be honest, we are all insecure in this part) Hmm and then well the only person you really need is yourself, because at the end thats the only thing you will have.
I’m still young but I’ve already played around with the thought of being “Single Forever”. Unfortunately, that prospect is very real to a good amount of good people who only want to be happy. Life is like that, I suppose, and I think you always have society to blame for depriving these people of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.