Jan 07 2009
eHarmony Must Haves and Can’t Stands
There’s one thing on eHarmony that I really can’t stand.
Underneath one of the many sections you fill out, there is a place to pick Must-Have’s and Can’t-Stands. These are statements that you pick out that are most important to you in another partner.
One of them says something like ‘I must have a partner who is considered “very attractive” by most current standards.’ And if this is really really important to you, you can list it as one of your ‘Must Haves’.
I’m not sure why this is there, really. I mean, when someone lists that as something they absolutely MUST HAVE, it turns me off. And many of the guys that check that box are hardly considered “very attractive by most current standards”.
Of the many statements that are listed, is that really one of the most important things they are looking for? I mean, attraction is a must-have, but why must they be attractive to people in society? Aren’t there people that are attracted to someone, not because they are wanted by everyone else in the world, but because they see something in that person that others might not see?
I doubt I’ll have much luck on this site, because I don’t like many of the statements that they want you to pick. Plus, I specifically state that I don’t want any matches that have children, yet I get many of those everyday.
Oh well, we’ll see what happens I guess.
