Feb 22 2009
Staying Single and Liking It
Wow, its been a hectic week. Working sucks. 
I was out driving with my friend last night, and I was telling her how I’m really content right now and am so busy with this book I’m working on that I don’t have time to date. And I really mean it. I mean, sometimes people say they are happy being single but are just saying that until someone comes along, but I seriously am happy and content.
I don’t have to worry about arguing with someone, or ‘checking in’ with someone, or anything like that. I can do what I want and am free to go out with whoever I want.
So today, a cute guy that I’ve known for awhile asked if I wanted to go out sometime. I told him that I’m really busy right now, but when I have time I’d love to get together.
Before, I would have jumped at the chance to go out with this guy. But now, I’m so tired and worn out from shitty relationships, that I’m done and don’t want to deal with it anymore.
So maybe I passed up a chance to have something good, but right now, I’m more focused on myself and other things, and I would rather be alone.
Besides, when Angi and I write our bestselling book, why would I want to share my millions with anyone else?
I completely agree with you. Lately I don’t mind the single life so much because I’m super busy juggling my many projects. I decided to write a book (it’s actually more like a screenplay I was working on decided that it needed to be told narratively in novel form) so there’s little time to think of the dates you could go on, the dates someone needs to be asking you out on and the dates that Burrito Boy can not try to boink you after when you’re busy pursuing what fulfills you.
So for the time being, I’m very much Single in L.A. and enjoying it!